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Why Hasn't He Proposed? Diamond Ring Sweepstakes

Guess what! My book is being released on Monday, January 12th!!!
And because we are excited about making love happen, we are giving you the chance to win a DIAMOND RING!!! That's right all you have to do is sign up...we would also LOVE to hear your dream proposal!
We are also giving away DIAMOND EARRINGS and copies our books, WHY HASN'T HE CALLED? and WHY HASN'T HE PROPOSED?
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Relationship Advice Via Video !!!!

Hey everyone...www.AskMattAndTamsen.com
has launched and we are ready to answer all of your love and relationship questions. Whether you are trying to figure out what a guy is thinking or how to dress for a date, we have the answer....

Check it out!
Matt

It's Not You, it's Me!!!

Check it out...Forbes.com interviewed me about my dating boot camp...take a look!

IT'S NOT YOU...IT'S ME

FORBES.COM: SEX AND THE COASTS

WHY HASN'T HE PROPOSED?
from first date to setting the date...



Hi everyone! Sorry it's been so long since I've checked in...after a tons of emails and a lot of thought, Tamsen and I are a launching THE place for you to ask for and receive advice on dating, love, relationships and men! It's called AskMattAndTamsen.com and it will be your source for love!
Also, we have just finished our second book , Why Hasn't He Proposed? set to be in bookstores February 2009. Can't wait to hear from you...tell us what you think!

WHY HASN'T HE CALLED?

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Finally...you never again have to wonder what he is thinking. After you read this book, you will know what goes on inside a guy's head from the time he asks you out to the time he says "I Love You."

It’s been two days since your dream date. You thought the night went well but still no word from him. Sound familiar? As the husband-wife duo behind an exclusive New York dating service, the authors of Why Hasn’t He Called? have seen it all and have shocking insights into what guys are really thinking, during your first date and beyond. Armed with advice that’s both brutally honest and empowering, you’ll be able to:

• Learn the secrets of the boy’s club
• Dress to impress and unleash your sexy, confident inner “Bond Girl”
• Determine which men are confirmed bachelors and which men are serious about a relationship
• Know what you should never say on a first date

A self-proclaimed traitor to his gender, Matt Titus has made it his mission to help women avoid players like his former self. He is the founder of Matt’s Little Black Book, a Manhattan matchmaking agency. Tamsen Fadal is an Emmy-award winning TV journalist and works alongside Matt in their quest to help singles navigate the often times confusing and crazy world of dating. The husband-wife duo are the co-founders of www.SassyBean.com, the hip, sexy site that spills the beans on life, love, and relationships. Matt and Tamsen are the stars of the Lifetime series “Matched in Manhattan,” where they date coach their clients and give honest advice on wardrobe, hair, and make-up.

Meet The Authors

Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal know all about what attracts men, what turns them off, and more important, how to help women attract the right kind of man--and ditch the duds. Why Hasn’t He Called? How Guys Really Think and How to Get the Right One Interested in You (McGraw-Hill; February, 2008; PB, $16.95) is a wake-up call to the behaviors, challenges, and mistakes that lead single women to waste countless hours on men that aren’t worth the investment. As professional relationship experts, the Titus-Fadal husband/wife duo team step up to offer valuable dating tips in a engaging he said/she said format. Matt Titus, a reformed “ultimate player,” reveals the Secrets of the Boys Club, and everything you need to know to navigate the confusing and sometimes crazy world of dating. He clues women in on everything from what goes through a man’s head when he looks at you for the first time, to what he think about your “Love Shack,” and what will make him run for the hills.

Matt’s wife Tamsen Fadal (the couple were married this past October), dishes on “Where The Boys Are”, how to dress to show off your best assets, how to flirt, and how to proceed when you’re finally ready to take him home.

Matt and Tamsen are the stars of the Lifetime series “Matched In Manhattan,” and founders of the New York-based dating service Matt’s Little Black Book, which has successfully matched up more than 2000 satisfied men and women. For more of their expert advice, check out http://www.SassyBean.com, the online women’s magazine that spills the beans on dating, love and relationships providing women answers to the many facets of love and romance.

Matt Titus

Matt Titus is New York City ’s premier relationship expert and dating coach. He is the founder of Matt’s Little Black Book, a matchmaking agency that caters exclusively to the city’s most successful and selective single women. Matt’s honest relationship advice is delivered from the perspective of a man who has played the field, a guy who went from heartbreaker to matchmaker and finally found love with his wife, Emmy Award-winner Tamsen Fadal.

Matt is the co-founder of the website. SassyBean.com, where he spills the beans on love, dating and relationships and gives single ladies to their questions on dating and relationship etiquette.

Matt lives in Manhattan with Tamsen and their two Chihuahuas.

Tamsen Fadal

Tamsen Fadal is an Emmy Award winning TV journalist who works alongside her husband, relationship expert and dating coach, Matt Titus.

As a career woman who has spent over a decade in front of the camera, Tamsen has mastered the art of balancing a successful career and a relationship. She dishes on how to dress to show off your best assets, how to flirt and how to find a great man who will not be intimidated by a confident, fabulous woman

In 2004, Tamsen was named Outstanding Young Alumni for her career accomplishments and university involvement from USF.

Tamsen is currently President of the NYC Chapter of Divas Who Dine where she writes a relationship/dating column for the national woman’s networking organization, fielding questions from career women across the country.

Matt Titus & Tamsen Fadal, October 13, 2007 Tavern On The Green

Hi All!
We got our pictures back from the wedding, and I just wanted to share my favorite one...
Best-
Matt

Is It Spring Yet????

I was in Los Angeles last weekend on a business trip, [and of course trying to escape the cold] when I overheard some ladies talking a the table next to me. We were all sitting outside at my favorite breakfast place, Toast, and the tables were so close, I suddenly found myself butting in. Two of the girls were reassuring the third that the Mr. Right Now in her life was "defininitely just playing games," and totally into her. For several years, I have been working with women, and I am often surprised when they are not sure how to read men. I know we can be difficult to understand, but there are times when I think guys [especially the so-called players] are so transparent. I hated to do it, but after hearing the details, I knew the "lady in love" was going to get hurt, and I felt compelled to tell her so. Finally, after hearing that I am a man working with women, she asked what I thought and I told her. Unless someone is a client of Matt's Little Black Book, I am often reluctant to dish out advice they may not want to hear, but in this case,
I hope that little coffee talk saves my new found LA friend from heartache in the near future, and puts the player in his place. A long time after I put together a list of the signs that can help a women see if "he is the one." Just thought I would pass it along. Plus, I am staying in tonight, it's Fridayand quite frankly, it's freezing out. For the rest of you New Yorkers, I am sure you know what I mean!

1. He understands.
   He always tries to see your side of things. This means that even if he's seen you get upset or cry about something a hundred times before, he still tries to calm you down and makes you feel better.
2. He tells you.
   Oh those three special words, the words some men have major trouble saying. Well, if he says them often, count yourself lucky. Hearing him say "I love you," and knowing he means every word, is proof that he's one of a kind.
3. He shows you.
   We all know most men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes they use other forms of expression. Forms of expression include: taking you out for dinner when he thinks you need a break from cooking or understanding that you might need some time to yourself. While you may like to hear those sweet whispers of affection from him, it's a fact that actions speak louder than words.
4. He listens to you.
   Is he's genuinely interested in what you're saying when you talk to him? Does he give you his undivided attention during your conversations, instead of having the television blaring in the background? It's an important sign, if he shows he's really concerned about your feelings, and especially what you have to say.
5. He's happy around you.
   Smiles? Laughter? Excited to spend time with you and not his guy friends? Glad just to be with you? If he can't get enough of you, it's a sure sign that he's really attracted and in love.
6. He compliments you.
   He notices when you change something about your appearance. He appreciates when you take the time to look great. When he looks you up and down admiringly with a little smile and tells you how beautiful you are, you know you matter.
7. He takes care of you.
   Is he your own personal guardian angel? Does he baby you when you're sick and nurse you back to health? If the answer is 'yes', then it's a pretty sure bet you've got a good thing going.
8. His friends and family like you.
   You can gauge how a man feels about you from the way his circle of friends and family treat you. If you are held in high regard, and they have embraced you like one of their own, it's a fact he's been telling them how happy he is to have you in his life.
9. He appreciates you:
   Telling you how proud he is of your achievements or praising you to his family and friends is a wonderful signal. It's a sign he is in deep appreciation of who you are to him.
10. He asks for your opinion.
    He asks for your advice, considers it and may put it to good use. When important decisions are at stake concerning him, he doesn't just go ahead and decide on his own what he thinks is right.
11. He's interested in what you want too.
    Let's say you're both watching television and you want to watch Desperate Housewives while he'd like to catch 24. You know how men are when it comes to the remote control! If he lets you watch your show of choice, not in a grudging manner, but because he wants you to be happy, you've got a winner. Give him extra points if he actually sits through it with you!
12. He makes you feel special.
    Finally, is he the kind of guy who's always trying to keep the romance alive? Bringing you flowers or breakfast in bed are both really wonderful ways to know he cares. If he's always going out of his way to make you feel exceptional hold on tight, the man is a keeper.